About Us

Divorce coaching is for people in the divorce process seeking to avoid high conflict through increased self-awareness and renewed life purpose. We will work with you to redefine divorce as an opportunity for growth.

Coaching is not a substitute for legal advice. We will support you in working with your lawyer and legal team. If you haven’t built your team, we will coach you to find the lawyer and team that are right for you, wherever you are. We will listen and support you in making your own decisions throughout the process in alignment with your values and purpose.

Our Coaches

JIM SIEMENS

Family Law Specialist and Family Financial Mediator

As your coach, Jim integrates the tenacity that has fueled his legal career, wisdom forged in divorce battles, and a desire to meet and serve clients on the highest level. Jim is a present and active listener. Good listening produces good questions and Jim knows how to ask them. Good questions produce life changing answers - your answers.

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Discerning whether the marriage should end

We coach clients to discern for themselves whether they can safely commit to their own self-care while remaining in a marriage or partnership. If it is clear to a client that a marriage or partnership must end, we coach clients to discern for themselves the best way to communicate the end and to take next steps.

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Coping with the divorce process

We coach clients actively navigating the divorce process. Cultivating resilience and stress management is essential. We encourage clients to silence negative loops of thought that keep them stuck. We support client strategies that allow them to move through the process with equanimity and ease.

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Moving on with life

We coach clients that have come through the divorce process and are interested in writing a new story for themselves. Sometimes that means blamelessly discerning what went wrong in the past. Sometimes that means rediscovering natural strengths and values that may have been lost in a relationship that has ended.

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Parenting

We coach clients who are co-parenting and step-parenting. Parenting is some of the most challenging and important work we do in life. A coach can help you attune to your children while setting better boundaries. A coach can help you avoid the triggers that come with shared custody arrangements, and step-parenting arrangements.